an 8 week community journey focused on self love, self acceptance and healing for members of the lgbtqia+ community 

to love myself

being queer is your superpower, but you have to accept every part of yourself before you can wear the cape

When you enroll in Proud to Love Yourself you're exclaiming to the world that you are ready to love every part of you, especially the parts that are different.

to love myself?

what is

I created Proud to Love Myself as a safe haven for members of the community to come together and heal.

My journey to self acceptance as a gay man has been one of the most confusing and challenging things I've ever had to do.

I wanted to avoid working through the hardest parts about being queer because it felt easier.

From dealing with rejection within my family to the toxic pattern of keeping secrets to stay safe.

Until the avoidance was too painful.

After spending years working outside of the community as a self love coach I decided to create something LGBTQIA+ specific because our community needs this healing just as much as any other.

Yes, you can take steps to come out, express yourself with your appearance and find the love of your life; but there is a piece of the journey that not many people have completed.

In this life changing 8 week group journey you will learn the 5 pillars you must master to proudly love yourself.

Over the course of 2 months I will teach you everything there is to know about loving yourself, asking for what you desire and never feeling limited by your fear of what other people will think of you again!

there hasn't been a clear path to queer self acceptance until now

radical

that I love myself no matter what others say about me, regardless of my past, because of my personal power kind of love

get ready to experience

what people are saying

are you ready to stop playing the blame game and finally heal your relationship with yourself?

The relationship you might be numbing with substance, self doubt or the scene. The relationship you might be scared to work on because you might have to look at things you don't want to.

You are here for a reason and please know that you are not alone.


When we are seen as "different" sometimes we project feelings of not being enough and unworthiness onto ourselves because it's easier to agree with others than to fight for our truth.

Believe me, I have been there. I remember telling myself that I'd just wait until everyone I loved in my life passed away before I came out. I remember feeling so alone in the confusion of my identity.

are you ready to look in the mirror and finally love the person staring back? 

Over a decade later, I can confidently say that I live as my most authentic self every single day.

I am married to the man of my dreams, have a close-knit support system, I've built a career that fills me with joy and most importantly I am

PROUD TO LOVE MYSELF!

where I am now

At the age of 25 I was still struggling with my identity. I wanted so badly to come out but felt trapped. I was living a life that I thought everyone else wanted for me and was miserable because of it.

I was closeted, in a toxic relationship with money and food and hated myself for not having the courage to live my truth.

where I Started

Host of the top 100 podcast The Road to Self Love and creator of The Self Love Success Path and Self Love onDemand.


I've been featured in major publications and on podcasts like The Skinny Confidential Him and Her Show & Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine.

I've helped 1000's of people from around the world develop more self-love and live the life of their dreams.

Host of the top 100 podcast The Road to Self Love and creator of The Self Love Success Path and Self Love onDemand.

I've been featured in major publications and on podcasts like The Skinny Confidential Him and Her Show & Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine

I've helped 1000's of people from around the world develop more self-love and live the life of their dreams.

my name is paul FISHMAN

are you ready to live your truth like me?

let me introduce myself

WEEK 5

WEEK 4

WEEK 3

WEEK 2 

the proud to love myself roadmap

WEEK 6

We will focus on Self Discovery- unlocking the parts of you that are hidden away. The parts of you that make you unique and special!

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

We will focus on Self Awareness- understanding when we are being the most authentic version of ourselves and when we are silencing that beautiful human.

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

We will focus on Self Acceptance- acknowledging that self love starts from within and we must embrace every part of ourselves before we can even expect others to do the same.

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

We will focus on Celebration this week with a fun dance party and virtual community get together.

** a lot of times online programs can get bogged down with timelines and I like to break it up with a week of fun!

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

We will focus on Self Expression- we will focus on expressing our needs to ourselves and others. This is a powerful week of learning how to communicate in a way that is gentle and effective.

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

WEEK 7

We will focus on Self Love- you will understand how to take everything you've learned and apply it to your life outside of the program.

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

WEEK 1

WELCOME WEEK

Get to know the community and experience the magic of committing to this powerful program!

Support: Private in App Group and a live Call with Paul

WEEK 8

GRADUATION CELEBRATION!

We will celebrate your success and make sure you are ready to embark on your continued journey with support and love!

PROUD TO LOVE MYSELF STARTS
JULY 7th

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It's time to stop sitting around waiting for someone else to fix your problems. The magic of finally admitting that you are the only one who can actually change your life is that your life starts to change!

the only person who can change you is you

All Calls are hosted inside the members portal and will happen live every Wednesdays at 2PM pst / 5PM est. If you are unable to make the calls they will always be recorded and posted inside the membership portal.

how do I watch the calls?

This program is going to meet you where you are right now. In fact, regardless of whether you have 5 minutes or 5 hours a day to dedicate to it, you will be successful.

I have created this program to be gentle yet strong at the same time. Every lesson, mantra, and prompt has been placed in the exact right spot for you.

This program lives inside my custom app Self Love onDemand and you have lifetime access to it. This means that the container is safe and secure for you to truly heal and do this work.

how much time will this program take?

YES! This community is safe and secure. It is hosted off of social media inside my custom app Self Love onDemand and the only people who are allowed in the app have applied to be a part of it.

I pride myself in the safety of this space and take it very seriously.

will this be a safe space for me to express myself?

Frequently asked questions

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All Calls are hosted inside the members portal and will happen live every Wednesdays at 2PM pst / 3PM est. If you are unable to make the calls they will always be recorded and posted inside the membership portal.

how do I watch the calls?

This program is going to meet you where you are right now. In fact, regardless of whether you have 5 minutes or 5 hours a day to dedicate to it, you will be successful.

I have created this program to be gentle yet strong at the same time. Every lesson, mantra, and prompt has been placed in the exact right spot for you.

This program lives inside my custom app Self Love onDemand and you have lifetime access to it. This means that the container is safe and secure for you to truly heal and do this work.

How much time will this course take?

YES! This community is safe and secure. It is hosted off of social media inside my custom app Self Love onDemand and the only people who are allowed in the app have applied to be a part of it.

I pride myself in the safety of this space and take it very seriously.

WILL THIS BE A SAFE SPACE FOR ME TO EXPRESS MYSELF?