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How To Be More Confident with Paul Fishman

Welcome to another solo cast moment of the Road To Self Love!

In today’s episode, I’ll be talking about confidence, how to get it, what to do with it, and why it’s so important.

I will also share 3 easy things you can do to show up more confidently in your life.

What is confidence, anyway?

Confidence is believing in the certainty of something, in the certainty of you. It is saying yes to you and recognizing that you are someone worthy of everything you wish to have in life.

Self-confidence is the innate belief and understanding of how I show up in the world and everything I am doing is great for me.

The lack of self-confidence is something that we have been conditioned to live in since childhood. Whether it’s something other people have told us, things we’ve seen on TV. These are all subconscious stories that have been conditioned into us since very young ages.

Now, what can you do to become more confident?

  1. Take ownership of those feelings telling you that you aren’t enough. Own those stories you’ve been telling yourself over the years. Because when you take ownership, you dismiss the blame that you’re placing on other people. Realize you’re fueling the low self-esteem, self-worth cycle so you can put a stop to it.
  2. Forgive yourself for allowing other people to write your story and for treating yourself like this for so long. When you forgive yourself you can start taking action and fix things!
  3. Take action. We all have something in our lives that we aren’t doing. It’s time to start putting yourself out there, ditch self-doubt, stop pleasing everyone else, and show up as the best version of yourself.

This does take commitment. It isn’t something you just wake up with every morning. However, the truth is we are all born with self-confidence, it takes courage to practice it every day.

Self-Confidence Mantra

I (insert your name here) am worthy of investing in myself to show up, to light that fire underneath my butt to be the best version of me. I’ve been doing it this way for far too long. What got me here is not going to get me there, and that’s why I’m willing today to finally say yes to me and invest in myself.

Self lovers, are you ready to boost your self- confidence and change your life for good?

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