I mean, it's 2021 and finding that man that checks all your boxes might feel harder than ever, right?
You’re on the apps, you proactively message people you’re interested in, you go on the socially distanced dates and are truly putting yourself out there. You might have even let your family set you up or gone on that blind date with your friend's cousin's best friend.
but it always ends the same exact way...
what's wrong with me?
why is it working for everyone else?
when will it be my time?
I’m a Self Love Coach, communication expert and transformative healer on a mission to help women stop spinning their wheels and find the relationship of their dreams.
Over the years, I've helped thousands of women through their struggle to find love. You might be surprised when I tell you that a lot of the reasons why they weren't in a committed relationship wasn't their fault.
You see, whether their parents modeled unhealthy habits or they grew up watching reality TV that glorified drama filled relationships, every woman who has stepped into my program has had a massive misconception about what love is and how to create it.
And not just any man,
THE MAN. Someone who doesn't shy away from deep conversation, is in touch with himself and doesn't pass up the opportunity to take care of you.
I mean, can I sign up for this program?
Oh wait, I already found my MAN.
And that’s why I’m here teaching you!
Now, once you clear these blocks, I can guarantee that it will be so much easier to find your man.
Now, once you clear these blocks, I can guarantee that it will be so much easier to find your man. And not just any man, THE MAN. Someone who doesn't shy away from deep conversation, is in touch with himself and doesn't pass up the opportunity to take care of you.
I mean, can I sign up for this program?
Oh wait, I already found my MAN.
And that’s why I’m here teaching you!
I will help you get to the bottom of what you want so you can build an unbreakable foundation of truth. You will understand the false conditioning from the systems that you were raised in and successfully clear them away. This will allow you to step into your most authentic truth and develop ultimate self awareness and compassion.
Learn how to consciously and unconsciously own your journey. I'll teach you how to shine your light brighter than ever before and unapologetically be you. This will help you stand tall in the foundation you created in the Self Discovery pillar. You will be guided towards your personal north star and be held accountable for your growth.
I will teach you how to call him in quickly and easily. You'll be guided through a step-by-step process that will make it almost effortless to manifest your man. These are the exact tools that I used to call in my dream man and manifest the love of my life.
I will give you clarity around the unconscious belief system that a lot of women are unknowingly running around with. This system is keeping you from the love of your life. In this pillar I will help you rewrite your story to include your real life man, because the Prince Charming you've been dreaming of doesn't actually exist.
Inside this bonus masterclass, you’ll learn how to communicate successfully in relationship. Through years of couples counseling, individual therapy, and coaching Paul and his husband, Richard have mastered the art of healthy communication.
You’ll get to experience first hand how to have a dialogue using tools like mirroring, empathy and validation.
are saying
“When I originally came to Paul it was because I felt that the insecurities of my weight were getting in the way of my success. Pretty quickly Paul was able to help me unravel this and find the true limiting beliefs that I had that were sabotaging what I wanted out of
my career.
While working with Paul, not only have I come closer to my most confident self in years, I also did things I never thought I could do. I booked a boudoir shoot,
I turned down things that did not serve me without feeling bad, and I signed a deal with my business that 10X its net worth.
People forget that self-love and confidence don't just make you happier, it gives you the room to make a larger impact, more money, and step into your highest self.”
- NOELLE JOHNSON
“By focusing on my inner self, it has allowed me to have a more positive outlook. It's incredible what
kind of healing I was able to get from spending a few minutes each day in the program paired with some guided journaling.
The community aspect and new supportive friends
I got were everythinggggg.
For the first time, I met a group of strangers who didn't make me feel any pressure or judgement.
For the first time, I met a
group of strangers who didn't make me feel any
pressure or judgement.
Best money ever spent. This was the first time
I INVESTED in myself and it set a precedent for
regular attention and investments in my own
SELF LOVE and SELF CARE.”
- BROOKE GOREN
"While working with Paul, not only have I come closer to my most confident self in years, I also did things I never thought I could do."
"Best money ever spent. This was the first time
I INVESTED in myself and it set a precedent for
regular attention and investments in my own
SELF LOVE and SELF CARE.”
“I was in a really low place when I started working with Paul. I felt like I had absolutely no control over my life. I did not trust myself at all and was terrified to move forward; thinking I might make a mistake and not be able to recover from it. Finding Paul was one of the first, and best decisions I made to help me get my life back.
There were two big things that happened for me
over the course of working with Paul.
- NATALIE THOMAS
“The exercises and homework throughout the program helped me to frame my fears and challenges in a
different way. I needed help to change the negative talk and view I had of myself.
I was so bogged down by my
I was ready for help and ready to leave self-hate and self-doubt behind.
I was so bogged down by my negative opinion of myself; this course helped wake me up to the reality that I’m awesome!
- SARAH COHEN
Through different exercises, goal setting, weekly check-ins, and reflection, he helped me see that there is so much freedom and opportunity waiting for us once we let go of the stories we tell ourselves about what “ought to be” or “should be”. The second big thing followed shortly thereafter. I started asking for what I want and getting really clear about my boundaries.
His support and coaching helped me gain confidence in my instincts and get past things that had been holding me back. My mindset and approach to the ways I want to live and love in the future have shifted dramatically since I started working with Paul. He has a way of bringing things out of you that you didn’t know you had within you. It’s AMAZING to have someone who is constantly rooting for you, who wants the absolute best for you, and above all else, reminds you that you are already enough.”
Today I feel so much love for myself and that is helping me flourish and have the confidence to know that my happiness and dreams are worth it and attainable.”
negative opinion of myself; this course helped wake me up to the reality that I'm awesome!
"My mindset and approach to the ways I want to live and love in the future have shifted dramatically since I started working with Paul. He has a way of bringing things out of you that you didn’t know you had within you."
I was so bogged down by my negative opinion of myself; this course helped me wake up to the reality that I'm awesome!
“I've learned to forgive myself when I get off track or need a break. Reflecting on my journey and progress is just as important as experiencing it. It's part of the package.
- JENNA GUMTO
I'm very grateful for the things I have learned
about myself. I feel better equipped to build my own future.
I feel so grateful for all that I have, all that I've done and learned and for the things I still have yet to discover. My life is great and I have love all around me, but more importantly...for myself. My past does not define me, it simply molded me and the beauty is I can keep shaping the creation that is me.”
You can expect a lot of self discovery, a lot of breakthroughs, and a lot of support. You can expect to get high quality lessons and exercises that have been proven to yield results time and time again, as well as special bonuses that will elevate your Self Love journey and help cement it into a lifelong practice. You can expect a safe space to do this vulnerable work, and to get motivation and encouragement from a community of women who not only understand your journey, but are on their own similar one. You can also expect to get as much out of the program as you put into it - so if you’re willing to commit to the lessons and exercises you can expect your whole outlook on life to change.
Your success depends on the work you put in and committing yourself fully. I’m here to give you the tools you need to have the tremendous breakthroughs I know are possible, but it’s up to you to use them to build the life you desire. I’ve seen the success of SO many of my clients, but if you were to ask them they would all tell you that they did the work and it paid off ten times over.
There will be 8 LIVE calls where I’ll dive deep into each of the lessons plus an additional 8 LIVE Q&A calls. You’ll have an opportunity to submit all your questions to have them answered during the calls.
All group calls will happen on Mondays and all Q&A's will happen on Wednesdays. All calls will alternated between 10am and 3pm PST to accommodate as many schedules and timezones as possible. All calls will be recorded and posted in the app.
All of the lessons will be available in video and audio format, and will also be transcribed if you prefer to read instead of listen. The transcription will be available within 24-48 hours after the lesson is recorded.
All calls will be recorded and uploaded to the Self Love onDemand app within 24-48 hours, where you’ll be able to access them at any time.
All calls will be hosted on Zoom, a free video conferencing software that is available for your desktop, laptop or smartphone device.
Self Love onDemand is a community based platform that Paul created to host everything in the program in the same place. The best part? You can access all the programming directly through an app on your iOS or Android device! Don’t worry, you can also use your computer to access the program as well!
Facebook is toxic, so no. Everything is hosted inside the Self Love onDemand app. You won’t have to worry about navigating through the world of social media to get on your Self Love journey anymore!
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On average, the group call and Q&A will both last around 60 minutes each week, and the homework won’t take longer than 5-10 minutes a day. You can easily lump each week’s programming into a 2-hour block on the weekend. If you are committed to doing the work, you will find that time flies by and that it’s a lot of fun.
Notice if you’re using time as an excuse not to enroll in this program.
Due to the digital nature of the program we are unable to offer refunds; however, we do offer a 7 Day guarantee. If, after completing the first week of the program you feel like it is not the right fit, you may email SLD@paulfishman.love to request consideration for the guarantee. To qualify for the guarantee you must supply all homework from week one, showing that you did the work and are committed to your journey. You must also share with us the reason why you do not think that the program is the right fit for you. All refunds are on a case by case basis and are at the discretion of Paul Fishman and Every Kind of LLC. This guarantee must be requested by no later than Sunday, March 7th to be considered. If you request any later you will be expected to complete your payments as agreed upon signup.
Although I can’t guarantee that you will find your true love after completing this program, I can tell you that most people who intend to find love after this program will. It’s important to know that I cannot guarantee any specific outcome because you will only get out as much as you put into this program.
Although I created this program with single women in mind, it is for anyone who feels called to join. This program is for you if you are interested in developing or healing your relationship with yourself so you can show up as a better partner in your search for love or your already committed relationship. This program will successfully support you in learning how to use self-love as a means of fulfillment.
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