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Date Yourself
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yourself
march
2021
manifest your
dream relationship using self love
I'm SO IN!
I'm SO IN!
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Let’s talk about all the effort you’re putting into finding a real relationship
oh hey girl,
I mean, it's 2021 and finding that man that checks all your boxes might feel harder than ever, right?
You’re on the apps, you proactively message people you’re interested in, you go on the socially distanced dates and are truly putting yourself out there. You might have even let your family set you up or gone on that blind date with your friend's cousin's best friend.
but it always ends the same exact way...
you get ghosted.
he's a toxic bro.
the guy turns out to be
emotionally unavailable With mommy issues.
ghosted
mommy
issues
what's wrong with me?
why is it working for everyone else?
when will it be my time?
and you can't help but ask yourself
and you can't help but ask yourself
Your friends seem to be meeting great guys, getting into relationships, getting engaged, married, having babies and here you are scrolling through instagram thinking:
seriously,
"If I see one more engagement announcement I’ll throw my phone!"
ok, before you shatter your screen.
take a deep breath and step into my office.
deep breath
oh hey, it's your boy Paul Fishman
I’m a Self Love Coach, communication expert and transformative healer on a mission to help women stop spinning their wheels and find the relationship of their dreams.
Over the years, I've helped thousands of women through their struggle to find love. You might be surprised when I tell you that a lot of the reasons why they weren't in a committed relationship wasn't their fault.
it's time to write your own lonestory.
You see, whether their parents modeled unhealthy habits or they grew up watching reality TV that glorified drama filled relationships, every woman who has stepped into my program has had a massive misconception about what love is and how to create it.
LET'S DO THIS!
LET'S DO THIS!
real talk, you've been taught to only feel worthy if someone else says you are and the reality is that's just not true.
worthy
just not true
Jena's story
so here's what's up.
There are four universal hidden blocks keeping you from manifesting your dream relationship.
Yes, four things that will continue to stand in the way of you finding the guy who checks all your boxes.
And not just any man,
THE MAN. Someone who doesn't shy away from deep conversation, is in touch with himself and doesn't pass up the opportunity to take care of you.
I mean, can I sign up for this program?
Oh wait, I already found my MAN.
And that’s why I’m here teaching you!
Now, once you clear these blocks, I can guarantee that it will be so much easier to find your man.
Now, once you clear these blocks, I can guarantee that it will be so much easier to find your man. And not just any man, THE MAN. Someone who doesn't shy away from deep conversation, is in touch with himself and doesn't pass up the opportunity to take care of you.
I mean, can I sign up for this program?
Oh wait, I already found my MAN.
And that’s why I’m here teaching you!
over the past 10 years
10 years
I have been on a personal journey towards self-love. Along the way, I’ve found the love of my life and had the wedding of my dreams featured on the cover of a magazine.
I’ve also launched a business that fills me with joy, moved into my dream home and manifested so many amazing things along the way for me and my family.
It wasn’t until I discovered and cleared all four hidden blocks that I could acknowledge the things that I wanted so I could start receiving them.
and here's the cold hard truth,
I know you’re dying to know what the blocks are and how to kick them to the curb, right?
well good news,
that's why i created
date yourself
I've created a 4 pillared approach to help you rapidly discover and dismiss the 4 hidden blocks for good. I'll be teaching you these 4 pillars inside the program and we'll work together to make sure you never suffer in love again!
date
yourself
the four pillars
SELF DISCOVERY
PERSONAL POWER
MANIFESTING
YOUR MAN
unlearning the fairytale
I will help you get to the bottom of what you want so you can build an unbreakable foundation of truth. You will understand the false conditioning from the systems that you were raised in and successfully clear them away. This will allow you to step into your most authentic truth and develop ultimate self awareness and compassion.
Learn how to consciously and unconsciously own your journey. I'll teach you how to shine your light brighter than ever before and unapologetically be you. This will help you stand tall in the foundation you created in the Self Discovery pillar. You will be guided towards your personal north star and be held accountable for your growth.
I will teach you how to call him in quickly and easily. You'll be guided through a step-by-step process that will make it almost effortless to manifest your man. These are the exact tools that I used to call in my dream man and manifest the love of my life.
I will give you clarity around the unconscious belief system that a lot of women are unknowingly running around with. This system is keeping you from the love of your life. In this pillar I will help you rewrite your story to include your real life man, because the Prince Charming you've been dreaming of doesn't actually exist.
these pillars have helped thousands of women clear any obstacle that is standing between them and true love
sign me up!
sign me up!
think of your love life as the car and these pillars as the gas.
You need to understand how to fill your tank before you can drive off into the sunset.
What if I told you that after just eight weeks, you could have the keys to a brand new car and unlimited gas?
What if I told you that I would not only teach you how to discover the hiddenkeeping you from true love, but we’d also work together to make sure that they
never stand in your way again?
What if I told you that after just eight weeks, you could have the keys to a brand new car with unlimited gas?
What if I told you that I would not only teach you how to discover the hidden things keeping you from true love, but we’d also work together to make sure that they
never stand in your way again?
brand new car
unlimited gas?
how to discover the hidden things
never stand
in your way again?
never stand in your way again?
It’s no longer all on you to make this happen. receive the support you deserve to make all your dreams come true.
Get access to a support system who just “gets it.”
Join a group of people who, just like you, are also on the journey to self discover and manifesting their dream relationship.
Access a step by a step road map that will teach you how to call in that dream relationship and maintain it long term.
Stop letting the tired old stories about yourself and love get in the way of finding your man.
this program is for the woman who is ready to call in her dream relationship
the woman who is ready to start keeping promises to herself
for the woman who is looking for a community that get her and is willing to support her on this journey
date yourself is for the woman who believes her man is out there and is ready to call him in
who is this program not for?
if you're looking for a quick fix
if you aren't willing to try new things
if you aren't ready to put the work in
who is this program for?
this program is for you if you are sick of playing the dating games with emotionally unavailable men
this program is for you if you are
committed to living your best life
let's talk about the juicy details
juicy
details
8
weeks
4
pillars
16
live calls
1
social app
the journey runs from MARCH 1ST - april 23rd
self discovery
personal power
UNLEARNING THE FAIRYTALE
manifesting your man
each week you'll join AN (1) interactive group call AND A (1) DEEP DIVE q&a
everything happens
inside my exclusive
self love ondemand app
want the dirty details?
dirty details
week 1:
Learn how to pinpoint your true desires and map them out. Doing this is the critical first step to ditching the dating apps and finding true love. We’re going to rewrite your love story by looking in the mirror first.
a vision of love
week 2:
The way we feel about ourselves gets mirrored back to us in everything we do. Imagine you’re on the other side of the dating profile, would you swipe right on yourself? This lesson is going to give you the confidence and self-awareness to be the best version of yourself!
swipe right on yourself
week 3:
Have you ever thought to yourself, “If I didn’t have to worry about what anyone else would think, I’d live out my dreams”? Many women struggle with being their most authentic self. Here’s the reality: an even larger amount of women unconsciously allow others to determine who they are. Inside this week’s lesson, we’re going to get to the bottom of who you are. You'll walk away knowing what it feels like to be unapologetically you.
stop hiding, start shining
week 4:
This lesson will be taught by a celebrity guest, Miss Self Love! Miss Self Love lives every day as if it’s her last, and she is so excited to teach you how to express your wants and needs without shame. This week is a community favorite. You are not going to want to miss this opportunity to learn from the best!
stand in you power, queen!
week 5:
Believe it or not, your unapologetic presence is the most powerful gift to yourself and the world. This week is all about getting present with yourself so you can unlock the things that are holding you back from finding true love.
presents and presence
week 6:
Like any good thing, the relationship with yourself AND your partner is something you will get to work on every day. It would be silly of me to tell you that once you find your true love that it will just stick around without any work. Inside this lesson, you’ll unlearn the toxic fairytales and learn everything you’ll need to maintain and nurture long lasting love.
week 8:
Boundaries and clear communication are some of the most important things that you can have in any relationship. Here you'll learn about your lack of boundaries that attracted the wrong types of men and learn how to set and maintain healthy boundaries to attract and keep the man of your dreams.
boundaries and your boo
Miss Self Love
I'm ALL IN!
week 7:
By now, you will be ready to call in your man that checks every box. This lesson teaches you the laws of relational manifestation. I will teach you how I manifested my dream partner (now husband) in SEVEN DAYS. Yes, I used these tools, and he showed up seven days later.
calling them in
(self) love takes time
I'm ALL IN!
IF you enroll today
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clear communication 101
with Paul and his husband Richard
Inside this bonus masterclass, you’ll learn how to communicate successfully in relationship. Through years of couples counseling, individual therapy, and coaching Paul and his husband, Richard have mastered the art of healthy communication.
You’ll get to experience first hand how to have a dialogue using tools like mirroring, empathy and validation.
*this masterclass will take place in May 2021
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Weekly group calls
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the DATE YOURSELF meditation + subliminals library
six | 15 minute meditations
two | 30 minute deep sleep reprogrammings
available immediately inside the app
and when you pay in full get an exclusive Date Yourself Mug as a special gift
Pay in full members get special access to the mini masterclass bundle
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The Mini Masterclass Bundle includes over ten hours of mini-courses from my catalog of programming. A bonus worth $997 only available to you if you join today!
gratitude
morning
routine
dance
party
people
pleasing
habits
forgiveness
goal setting
reframing blame
money
communication
According to Match.com's annual “Singles in America” survey, unmarried Americans spend about $1,596 on dating every year.
THE TOTAL PRICE TAG INCLUDES COFFEE DATES, EVENT TICKETS, BARS, AND MEALS, AS WELL AS THINGS LIKE DATING SITE MEMBERSHIPS, DATING EVENT FEES, AND MATCHMAKERS. DATE PREPARATION LIKE HAIRCUTS, CLOTHING, AND MANICURES WERE INCLUDED AS WELL.
Are you going to be the kind of woman who continues to spend money on things that deliver the same lackluster results?
so the question is,
OR ARE YOU GOING TO take charge
of your life and finally receive
everything that you truly
deserve?
total value of the program and bonuses is $16,923
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Date Yourself
date
yourself
march
2021
i'M A HELL YES!
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i'M A HELL YES!
this program will change the way you look at dating and relationships.
but don't just take my word for it
past graduates
Here's what
are saying
“When I originally came to Paul it was because I felt that the insecurities of my weight were getting in the way of my success. Pretty quickly Paul was able to help me unravel this and find the true limiting beliefs that I had that were sabotaging what I wanted out of
my career.
While working with Paul, not only have I come closer to my most confident self in years, I also did things I never thought I could do. I booked a boudoir shoot,
I turned down things that did not serve me without feeling bad, and I signed a deal with my business that 10X its net worth.
People forget that self-love and confidence don't just make you happier, it gives you the room to make a larger impact, more money, and step into your highest self.”
- NOELLE JOHNSON
“By focusing on my inner self, it has allowed me to have a more positive outlook. It's incredible what
kind of healing I was able to get from spending a few minutes each day in the program paired with some guided journaling.
The community aspect and new supportive friends
I got were everythinggggg.
For the first time, I met a group of strangers who didn't make me feel any pressure or judgement.
For the first time, I met a
group of strangers who didn't make me feel any
pressure or judgement.
Best money ever spent. This was the first time
I INVESTED in myself and it set a precedent for
regular attention and investments in my own
SELF LOVE and SELF CARE.”
- BROOKE GOREN
"While working with Paul, not only have I come closer to my most confident self in years, I also did things I never thought I could do."
"Best money ever spent. This was the first time
I INVESTED in myself and it set a precedent for
regular attention and investments in my own
SELF LOVE and SELF CARE.”
“I was in a really low place when I started working with Paul. I felt like I had absolutely no control over my life. I did not trust myself at all and was terrified to move forward; thinking I might make a mistake and not be able to recover from it. Finding Paul was one of the first, and best decisions I made to help me get my life back.
There were two big things that happened for me
over the course of working with Paul.
- NATALIE THOMAS
“The exercises and homework throughout the program helped me to frame my fears and challenges in a
different way. I needed help to change the negative talk and view I had of myself.
I was so bogged down by my
I was ready for help and ready to leave self-hate and self-doubt behind.
I was so bogged down by my negative opinion of myself; this course helped wake me up to the reality that I’m awesome!
- SARAH COHEN
Through different exercises, goal setting, weekly check-ins, and reflection, he helped me see that there is so much freedom and opportunity waiting for us once we let go of the stories we tell ourselves about what “ought to be” or “should be”. The second big thing followed shortly thereafter. I started asking for what I want and getting really clear about my boundaries.
His support and coaching helped me gain confidence in my instincts and get past things that had been holding me back. My mindset and approach to the ways I want to live and love in the future have shifted dramatically since I started working with Paul. He has a way of bringing things out of you that you didn’t know you had within you. It’s AMAZING to have someone who is constantly rooting for you, who wants the absolute best for you, and above all else, reminds you that you are already enough.”
Today I feel so much love for myself and that is helping me flourish and have the confidence to know that my happiness and dreams are worth it and attainable.”
negative opinion of myself; this course helped wake me up to the reality that I'm awesome!
"My mindset and approach to the ways I want to live and love in the future have shifted dramatically since I started working with Paul. He has a way of bringing things out of you that you didn’t know you had within you."
I was so bogged down by my negative opinion of myself; this course helped me wake up to the reality that I'm awesome!
“I've learned to forgive myself when I get off track or need a break. Reflecting on my journey and progress is just as important as experiencing it. It's part of the package.
- JENNA GUMTO
I'm very grateful for the things I have learned
about myself. I feel better equipped to build my own future.
I feel so grateful for all that I have, all that I've done and learned and for the things I still have yet to discover. My life is great and I have love all around me, but more importantly...for myself. My past does not define me, it simply molded me and the beauty is I can keep shaping the creation that is me.”
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GOT QUESTIONS?
I UNDERSTAND -
INVESTING IN YOURSELF
IS A BIG DECISION.
Here are a few things that my clients commonly
ask, but don’t hesitate to email my team at
sld@paulfishman.love if you don’t see what
you’re looking for:
What can I expect to get out of date yourself?
You can expect a lot of self discovery, a lot of breakthroughs, and a lot of support. You can expect to get high quality lessons and exercises that have been proven to yield results time and time again, as well as special bonuses that will elevate your Self Love journey and help cement it into a lifelong practice. You can expect a safe space to do this vulnerable work, and to get motivation and encouragement from a community of women who not only understand your journey, but are on their own similar one. You can also expect to get as much out of the program as you put into it - so if you’re willing to commit to the lessons and exercises you can expect your whole outlook on life to change.
Can you guarantee I’ll get the same results as your other clients have?
Your success depends on the work you put in and committing yourself fully. I’m here to give you the tools you need to have the tremendous breakthroughs I know are possible, but it’s up to you to use them to build the life you desire. I’ve seen the success of SO many of my clients, but if you were to ask them they would all tell you that they did the work and it paid off ten times over.
How much support can I expect from Paul?
There will be 8 LIVE calls where I’ll dive deep into each of the lessons plus an additional 8 LIVE Q&A calls. You’ll have an opportunity to submit all your questions to have them answered during the calls.
What time will the weekly calls be?
All group calls will happen on Mondays and all Q&A's will happen on Wednesdays. All calls will alternated between 10am and 3pm PST to accommodate as many schedules and timezones as possible. All calls will be recorded and posted in the app.
How are the lessons delivered?
All of the lessons will be available in video and audio format, and will also be transcribed if you prefer to read instead of listen. The transcription will be available within 24-48 hours after the lesson is recorded.
What if I can’t make the calls live?
All calls will be recorded and uploaded to the Self Love onDemand app within 24-48 hours, where you’ll be able to access them at any time.
How can I access the calls?
All calls will be hosted on Zoom, a free video conferencing software that is available for your desktop, laptop or smartphone device.
WHAT IS SELF LOVE ONDEMAND?
Self Love onDemand is a community based platform that Paul created to host everything in the program in the same place. The best part? You can access all the programming directly through an app on your iOS or Android device! Don’t worry, you can also use your computer to access the program as well!
do you use a facebook group for this program?
Facebook is toxic, so no. Everything is hosted inside the Self Love onDemand app. You won’t have to worry about navigating through the world of social media to get on your Self Love journey anymore!
How do I pay WITH KLARNA?
Instructions on how to use Klarna can be found at the bottom of the pricing options page.
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I’m super busy and don’t have a lot of extra time, how much of a time commitment is this program?
On average, the group call and Q&A will both last around 60 minutes each week, and the homework won’t take longer than 5-10 minutes a day. You can easily lump each week’s programming into a 2-hour block on the weekend. If you are committed to doing the work, you will find that time flies by and that it’s a lot of fun.
Notice if you’re using time as an excuse not to enroll in this program.
DO YOU OFFER REFUNDS?
Due to the digital nature of the program we are unable to offer refunds; however, we do offer a 7 Day guarantee. If, after completing the first week of the program you feel like it is not the right fit, you may email SLD@paulfishman.love to request consideration for the guarantee. To qualify for the guarantee you must supply all homework from week one, showing that you did the work and are committed to your journey. You must also share with us the reason why you do not think that the program is the right fit for you. All refunds are on a case by case basis and are at the discretion of Paul Fishman and Every Kind of LLC. This guarantee must be requested by no later than Sunday, March 7th to be considered. If you request any later you will be expected to complete your payments as agreed upon signup.
Can you guarantee that I’ll meet someone after I complete this program?
Although I can’t guarantee that you will find your true love after completing this program, I can tell you that most people who intend to find love after this program will. It’s important to know that I cannot guarantee any specific outcome because you will only get out as much as you put into this program.
IS THIS PROGRAM ONLY FOR SINGLE WOMEN?
Although I created this program with single women in mind, it is for anyone who feels called to join. This program is for you if you are interested in developing or healing your relationship with yourself so you can show up as a better partner in your search for love or your already committed relationship. This program will successfully support you in learning how to use self-love as a means of fulfillment.
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